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Creating Positive Impact with the Right Questions: Reshape Your Life with NLP!

Burcu Onaranel Erten
2 min readDec 18, 2023

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Last week, we discussed what NLP is, the art of programming our minds with linguistics. Today, we delve into the power of linguistics in our lives, starting with the topic of questions. I chose questions as they marked a turning point for me in changing my life.

The questions you ask yourself are crucial; they can impact your life positively or negatively, and the only thing you can control is the language you use.

Remember when I shared about my job in Turkey? I was a Human Resources Specialist in an international company. In late 2015, I began feeling sad and unsatisfied.

Through NLP, I discovered that I had been asking myself the wrong questions.

While working as an HR Specialist in Turkey, I enjoyed a comfortable life, living with my parents, and earning a good income. However, I felt something was wrong with me, asking questions like:

What’s wrong with me?
• Why can’t I be happy?
• Even though I have everything, why am I not satisfied in life?

What do you think the answers to these questions were?

* What’s wrong with me?
- Answers to this might be; I am too lazy, I am overweight, I am not good enough…

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Burcu Onaranel Erten
Burcu Onaranel Erten

Written by Burcu Onaranel Erten

Let's Create Your Authentic Brand and Life | International Motivational Speaker | Certified Professional Life Coach | The Coffee o'clock Pod. YouTube @joyyburcu

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