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What Coaching is NOT
What Coaching Actually Is
1 min readJun 5, 2024
Even though coaching has been around for many years, there is still some lack of clarity in several people’s minds. I want to share what I know from learning from ICF Certified Professional Life Coaches, Trainers, and my own experiences over the past decade.
Coaching is NOT:
- A hobby 😀
- Being or acting like a therapist
- Giving advice
- Judging
- Acting like you are better or bigger than your client
- Only listening
- Only asking questions
- Manipulating
- Staying in the past
- Complaining
Now let’s take a look at what coaching actually is!
Coaching is:
- Encouraging your client by unlocking their own power
- Listening on a deeper level
- Asking powerful questions
- Respecting the client’s choices
- Being client-centered
- Establishing and maintaining agreements
- Cultivating trust and safety
- Maintaining presence